I read this book with great interest. My husband and I have been married for over 30 years and are well aware of many of the challenges any couple faces. We could have saved ourselves a lot of the struggles if we had used a more thoughtful approach through the years. This book is very thought provoking and much can be used for our own application. I recommend this book to anyone who is considering marriage, or even how to find the right partner. We have four children and we will be able to use the guidelines from this book to support our children better as they are starting their own families.